20.6.08

Stupidity

Pushy. I wonder if i'm pushy. When i think of pushy...a picture of a really annoying person comes to mind..i guess in some ways im annoying..but everybody is entitled to be annoying sometimes right?? Someone called me pushy..and today i was thinking about it..i guess i am in some ways.I think i might be delusional as well. If you ask someone 'do you like me?' and they say 'i havnt thought about us in that way'..then the person has politely said..'um..no'..Why is this just realisation just coming to me today?? After days and days of making myself look more stupid than i've already done. i think theres a reason why girls pick 'bastards'..because they always know where they stand.Polite people? not so much..they answer everything so diplomatically, you dont pick up the hints until its to late and you look too stupid..*hits head*..I feel like SUCH an IDIOT!!

It seems like i'm always writing about a guy. this guy. Because he makes me feel like i can sometimes reach a level of stupidity i didnt know i had. I can deal with someone not liking me..etc..what really makes me feel stupid is all those diplomatic hints that i just DID NOT get!! I dont know what to say anymore. i guess im just going to keep on cringeing till i get over it and learn to tune my 'hint reception' to a higher frequency.

I'm really not this stupid. I would actually say i'm quite smart. I'm not this obsessive. I would even say i'm fickle. I just dont know what to say anymore. I guess i dont know myself as well as i thought i did.

23 comments:

Zephi Fahrenheit said...

yay..I am first

"'hint reception' to a higher frequency."
it happens to the best of us...dont worry you'll get over it

NigerianDramaQueen said...

Yes, everyone is allowed to be annoying from time to time. Its allowed.
Speaking of blond moments, I was talking to this guy that Im kinda of talking to (whatever that mumbo jumbo means) yesterday and we were talking about Brazil..and why did my ass say they speak Spanish in Brazil?! I felt so stupid. Good thing is he just laughed it off..so it happens to the best of us!
PS: If this guy is making you feel stupid..maybe th problem is him..great guys make you feel grat about yourself..just a thought!

Enigma said...

I feel your pain.. you shouldnt feel stupid..you liked someone and you went for him..his loss he doesnt feel the same way..

Cheer up..

Naija Idol said...

awww. so sad. shit happens uno, everything'll b fine with time.

Minky said...

Awww darling, we've talked about this already but plz you are not an idiot!! We all make mistakes. Dont blame yourself for not getting the hints...as human being it is easy to be oblivious to such. In your case especially when you like the person.

NaijaBabe said...

Dont blame yourself...when the communication is a bit hazy, you are allowed to make assumptions.

Funms said...

u were not being stupid, trust me, it happens to alot of us. its when our feelings and emotions cloud our thinking. You'll be fine luv

Mz. Dee said...

So sorry bout this love.. its happened to me b4 but don't worry bout it.. you'll pull through!!
xxx

Charizard said...

Shish...

Ode!

*hiss...

Ur not pushy jooo...delusional...right now maybe for thinkin ur pushy in the first place..

as per them stuvz....*sighh**...omo mehn please stop the pity party and quit blamin urself for the nicca's stupidity abeg

my two kobo...get over it!!!!

arrghhhh!!! and stop moanin about the whole thing...

I know am a bit hard on u buh...mehn..baby....ur giving him too much of ur life...

AlooFar said...

Just Cheer Up.

Smaragd said...

flabby, my very long, uplifting comment just disappeared with the disgusting internet service in my office! sorry

Lady Koko said...

MI BEYEBEY!!!!!!! every GIRL MUST HAVE ONE OF THESE EXPERINCES....I PERSONALLY WHENEVER I FIND MYSELF IN SUCH A SITUATION....I AM QUICK TO ADMIT THAT I KNU FULLY WELL WOT I SHUD BE DOING BUT MY EMOTIONS ARE TOO FAR GONE...so my friends shud just let me be for a minute!!!!! YOU R SMART BECOS....U ARE ABLE TO ANALYSE THE SITUATION AND ADMIT THINGS TO URSELF! heck! his loss man!!!!!!! MWAH!!!!!!!!!
P.S: LONG ASS TIME OOO..XOXO

Lady Koko said...

MI BEYEBEY!!!!!!! every GIRL MUST HAVE ONE OF THESE EXPERINCES....I PERSONALLY WHENEVER I FIND MYSELF IN SUCH A SITUATION....I AM QUICK TO ADMIT THAT I KNU FULLY WELL WOT I SHUD BE DOING BUT MY EMOTIONS ARE TOO FAR GONE...so my friends shud just let me be for a minute!!!!! YOU R SMART BECOS....U ARE ABLE TO ANALYSE THE SITUATION AND ADMIT THINGS TO URSELF! heck! his loss man!!!!!!! MWAH!!!!!!!!!
P.S: LONG ASS TIME OOO..XOXO

uNWrItten* said...

no one should make you feel stupid..haba..a whole flabby!!..are u serious..abeg pls tell him to FI LE!!!!
:)

Tininu said...

be pushy jare...if they are annoying you...even use your pushyness and push them away sef!!!..lol!! and y do i have a very good feeling that you and black berry go hand in hand, location wise

Tininu said...

rumour also has it that you have heard alot about me in real life...true or false

Tininu said...

rumour also has it that you have heard alot about me in real life...true or false

Lady Koko said...

hmmm flaBBY!!!!!!!!!!!!IHOPE ITS NOT MY OWN MYSTERY BOY U HAVE BEEN RUNNZING OOO.....BECOS THIS ONE THAT HE TOO IS MOVING O ABJ!!!!!!1I FEAR OOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
P.S: LONG TIME HUH! DAMN GIRL U DNT EVEN KNU..I HAVE BEEN SOO HEARTBROKEN SINCE YDAY MEHNNN.......THIS IS MESDSED UP MEHNN

Tininu said...

omg u guys have been dating the same guy.!!!!!! Wow u guys should write a story on it as in seriously. But I realised ur probs not who I think u were because I am in ur town( I figured it out with a bit of help from blackberry) but unless you just came back into ur town today then ur not who I taught u were. P.s if u did come back into ur town today then u were looking bunz and I hope u didnt see me in away into a shop to hide..LOL

Tininu said...

actuali scrap my last comment, i realised i was hungry when i typed it, and now loking back on it, doesnt really make sense...so do me a fav and delete or you can just leave it and let me look stupid infront of other readers..

Minky said...

Tininu why must you want to know who everyone on blogsville is?

You are weird guy...u went to hide!? Lmao. Flabby leave it! hehe :P

uNWrItten* said...

u can like to update also! lol

Afrobabe said...

Lmao…I don’t mean to laugh but I cant help it…not getting the hint is like not getting the queue to leave the room…sucks…happens to everyone