There's a lot to be said for staying.
Isnt that what God does?
Yes- in everything relating to how much we should take...I reference God.
Basically, we can do anything- and as long as we can appreciate that we were wrong, we can start over.
How come with humans, it's all 'I forgive you but...'
'But we can never be friends again'
'But I can never trust you again'
'But this kind of behaviour is unacceptable'
There are too many conditions. Staying is weak or stupid or just against the general principle of life.
I'm not a stayer and it's the people who act the worst that comment on the fact that I'm always looking for an opportunity to run away. So obviously, I put what they say down to bullshit...like how can you add badly and then be-grudge me for running away?
But when I think about it...staying means something. Staying is something we don't try enough.
I don't mean staying when you might end up dead.
Or staying when the only way you can sleep is sleeping pills.
Or staying when your betrayal is too deep to stay and forgive.
Or staying when you're.just.not.happy.
You know what? I was wrong...leaving is definitely how it's supposed to be.