2.10.08

What i dont get

what i dont get is... how come we love people differntly..maybe i speak for myself when i say this..but everytime i'm loving someone new..i keep waiting to feel the same way i felt last time..even if i might feel as strong..its never quite the same! Sometimes i feel that 'desperate.i think about u all the time' feeling..and sometimes its just a 'warm-im happy when i think of you' feeling. I dont think it means any less either time..its just... different.

What i dont get is..how come when you're with someone..you really believe they love you..like totally..completely..but then when things go wrong..and maybe their feelings change, you never believe they loved u in the first place. Does that make it easier to move on? Thinking that someone never cared? Is it that you cant bear to think that they DID love you and they dont anymore?? Or is it because love is supposed to be everlasting? But what if they still love you and it just isnt enough??

What i dont get is how quickly things change..people change..or does it just appear to be fast? maybe signs were there and you just didnt see??

What i dont get is how i love so hard..my heart hurts and i always pick people that cant love me back..dont want to love me back..quite so completely..

What i dont get is how to accept things that cannot change

10 comments:

Tina said...

I don't get it either....its just life. Don't give your bucket of love to the wrong person, think of it as rare treasure that needs to be stored in a worthy place. Being patient helps, it can be frustrating but it just is. Cry it out, scream it out, let it out, eat it out(stuff your face) then remember your life goes on.

Sugarlumps said...

Like Tina says, its just life..when it comes to love its new everytime with a new person, i dont think you can love the same, but as you meet a new person, you'll have learnt alot from previous encounters then your love is just new..

Confessions of a London gal said...

You just need to pray to God to give you the power to understand and accept the things you cannot change. But whatever you do; never settle for less than you deserve.
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miz-cynic said...

Dats just d may it is.if a peson doesnt wana b with u.it simply means he is not in love with u at dat moment.accept it n move on

Buttercup said...

deep questions i wish i had the answers to..

hope u r ok!

Temite said...

I dont know myself. Everytime I go through a breakup, I tell myself that I will never love again but it happens again. I am so tired of the back and forth. I wish I could just stop loving people, I will be so content.

rethots said...

We love people differently 'cos they are different individuals......and mean different things.

Time, eventually helps us accept things that cannot change.

doll said...

wow wat can i say. i knw u r sayin dis cuz u r hurt, dont wori that one person 4u dat rite person 4u will soon come den u will be more gratfuland in better understanding of the word called luv

Kin'shar said...

If someone really loves you then you would really know. If you love someone that person is going to want to be with you all the time, that person will neva hurt you.....If they really loved you.


What I dont get is how someone say they love you so quickly but so easy to lay with another or leave you.....do you get that?!?!?!

rethots said...

"...to accept things that cannot change." Hmmm,