25.9.08

I lie

This is the truth- I lie. I lie sometimes. I lie because i'm human and sometimes its the easier thing to do. I want to be noble. I want to scream- 'I DONT LIE!!'..people are always saying all these things like 'i cant lie..im very bad at lying'...and basically all this stuff that i choose to say isnt true. Maybe it would seem like i'm trying to make myself feel better by claiming that its what everyone does- but isnt it? Dont we all at some point or the other?

Examples of times when i lie? Theres no point. I dont even lie about the big important things- i try not to lie to my mum- i dont think she deserves it..sometimes i lie about the unimportant things..just because i dont want to go into the complications that the truth will require..i dont want to deal with the aftermath of the truth..I've never asked anyone to trust me..its a choice we personally have to make and i dont think it has to do with instinct..i think its just choice- pure and simple!! But having said that, i've never given anyone a reason not to trust me..

Why am i thinking about this now? I dont know. I lie- judge me

8 comments:

Miss Definitely Maybe said...

First!!!!!!!!!!
hey no one is here to cast stones,
having said that these days I try to keep quiet rather than 'make' an outright lie. Sometimes i will just 'withold' certain information i.e i might have gone to the shops and then a friends house but if you ask me where have you been I will just say 'oh i went to the shops'. I would say dont lie unless you have to coz sometimes the hassle is not worth it.

Zena said...

like MDM said, No one can cast any stones,We all lie though some lies have consequences whether it be a small white lie or a bold faced one, we all lie.

ShonaVixen said...

i cant even judge you coz white lie or not a lie is still a lie and we are human, we do become economical with truth @ some point..and as MDM said lie if its really essential coz they do have consequences and sometimes it could spiral out of control.

NewLife said...

It is what it is, I needed to read this tonight though I'm on the receiving end. Thanks for your honesty

doll said...

You are hereby convicted of lying and sentenced to 5 months compulsory reading of my blog

Ade Adeyemi said...

hey we all telk a white lie here or there... there's however a step furthe, why not just say ' I dont want to talk about it... or stay mute'... it really doesn't matter we all have coping strategies. I love that u're real and I have read too many blogs today!

uNWrItten* said...

boo i think thats the reason you have a blog to release ur emotions and thoughts..dont be too hard on urself..

Kin'shar said...

@ unwritten...and thats ok to release emotions...and to vent.

Everyone lies...but no one should lie for nothing....I know a girl that just tell lies for entertainment...but most will lie to get out of trouble....if you just said not me...you just lied.