20.1.09

why the hell is he lying to me? Why do i care that he's lying? because we are friends-dammit!! or is that all in my head?? whats with all these 'friends' that keep pissong me off-i need new friends...

I need to finish my essay. its final year, i cant afford to not finish on time to edit properly

I need another friend like the one that threw me away- someone i can talk to about everything, not just because they are good listeners but because they actually bloody care!

7 comments:

Naija Idol said...

hmmmm. have similar problems with friends..it actually hurts, especially when u find out the truth from someone else.

Nefertiti said...

Not sure how I can help u, hon. I see the issue, but not sure what the solution that'll work for u is. Seems to me like u r still subconsciously seeking external validation, but I might be wrong. All the best, babes!

Chari said...

I wasn't lying joo!!!

geeezzz!!!! I sent u offlines honest to goodness!!!

Miss Definitely Maybe said...

people are not 100% perfect
sometimes they lie to get out of uncomfortable situations
sometimes they tell the truth not out of love but spite
so sometimes we have to understand that humans have faults
but their faults should not outweigh the positives
that would be the time to chuck in the relationship

Danny Bagucci said...

Doubt there are any perfect people out there.. But every one has a minimum set of requirements you want from friends, you need to determine what that is, and ask yourself if the friends you have meet that... Makes sense to also ask what people's motivation for telling you stuff is, i've found out that sometimes the motivations can be more in their self interest than in yours or for the sake of the friendship.. That ability is the first essential of understanding other people i my opinion

teebay said...

tsk tsk..

:)

Afunto baby! said...

I will listen because Im looking for a friend like that tooo...lol. nah but forreal tho his this goi ooo gettin u all worked up and stuff?